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Avocado Toast's avatar

I knew the whole oldest daughter syndrome thing had gone way too far when someone I know started trying to diagnose my daughter with it. She’s two and doesn’t even have any siblings yet.

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Julia Toof's avatar

I'm the eldest girl within a large extended family, and feel like I was held to stricter standards and criticism by my family at large, but also just think it's because I had my more conservative grandma for longer (which I appreciate), and secondly, my aunts and uncles just hadn't had kids, especially daughters, at my age yet. It's normal for people to be overly idealistic about how they'd raise kids prior to having them. All that to say, I'm not really negatively affected by all that.

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